Thursday, September 3, 2009

Didn't see this one coming

My wife decided on Sunday that she doesn't want to be in this relationship anymore.

Our son is 10 weeks old.

24 comments:

N said...

Oh, my. What a blow. I hope that the two of you can find a place that's good for you each. I'm so sorry.

waitingformavis said...

Oh dear! I'm so very sorry! I don't know what to say. How unexpected. I'm sorry!

The Amily Diaries said...

I am so sorry. Please let us know what we can do to help you through.

queerstork said...

Such sad and terrible news. I'm so sorry.

Rachael said...
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insertmetaphor said...

I'm so sorry. This is horrible news. I wish there was something I could do.

This Mom said...

I'm so sorry to hear this. You are in my thoughts as you find your way through this.

Pufferfish said...

OMG. I can't believe I'm reading this. And you're legally married. I'm so, so sorry.
I can't imagine what you are going through right now.

Melissa said...

I'm so very sorry. I'm a little speechless right now. Huge hugs to you.

Strawberry said...

this is just horrible, and I'm so sorry. I really hope you can either work it out or come to a place where you can both be ok and move on. we are here to support you.

anofferingoflove said...

oh, honey. i am so sorry to hear this news, how heartbreaking. i hope you two are able to work through this and figure out the best way to move forward as parents for your son. you're in my thoughts.

journeytowardsourbaby said...

Wow, I'm surprised and so sorry to hear that. Take care of yourself, I'll be thinking of you.

Two Moms, Two Monkeys said...

WHAT?? WOW! So so sorry. Can't even imagine what you are going through right now...hoping you both find a resolution that that works out for the 3 of you.

wishinghopingpraying said...

Oh. no! I am so very sorry. I can't even imagine how horible it was to hear that. I hope that you are able to work things out. Babies put such tremendous stress on a marriage, no matter how much they were planned for. I am thinking of you and sending love to you and your son. Please let us know if we can help in any way.

Heidi said...

Oh my goodness. I am so terribly sorry.

sending you strength and peace.

dreamsandfalsealarms said...

I am so so sorry. What a terrible blow.

Carrie said...

oh no! That is such sad news, and with a 10 week old son, too. I am so sorry that things are not working out in the relationship. I know this must be a very difficult time, on many levels. We're sending you good thoughts, and I truly hope this somehow works out.

Cheyelle Omar said...

I don't even know you (I was blog surfing and chanced upon your page). I hope it works out for all of you thou. Love can be a fucker...

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Eva said...

What's going on? I'm so sorry to read about this. Please let us know that you are okay.

BonnieLenae said...

How awful. Take care of yourself.

Krista said...

Stay strong, everything happens for a reason, whether we know why or not.

The Boyfriend Shopper said...

A broken heart is always so much worse when children are involved.
Good luck.

d said...

just checking in. let us know what is going on with you. hope all is well.